BLACK BREASTFEEDING WEEK
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This week is dedicated to raising awareness about lactation disparities in Black families and communities.

⁣There are snuggles.⁣⁣ Nights that turn into morning.⁣⁣
Cracked and bleeding nipples.⁣⁣
Pumping.⁣⁣
Tongue ties + tears⁣⁣
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Now pair all of this with being black...⁣⁣
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There is systemic racism.⁣⁣
Bias.⁣⁣⁣
A history of wet nursing.⁣⁣
The over sexualization of black bodies.⁣⁣
The disregard of our bodies. ⁣⁣
The lack of breastfeeding support. ⁣
The under representation within the lactation + motherhood community.⁣⁣
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This is why #BlackBreastfeedingWeekis necessary. Because WE need to see US, joyFUL, loved, and Blacker than ever... #MadeByStereoLove 

CASTOR OIL FOR PMS RELIEF
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I typically have moderate pain during my periods, but for the last few months I’ve had intense cramps and back pain (largely due to change of environment, change of diet, and my struggle to manage my stress during the transition of moving back to the states). Because of this, I have been exploring more natural ways to manage my pain before I reach for the ibuprofen (or wine). ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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Enter castor oil packs! Not only are they super relaxing, castor oil is an anti-infammatory that helps to detoxify the liver and support uterine + ovarian health by improving circulation. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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Castor oils packs can be used preventatively during your luteal phase (from end of ovulation until period begins) in the days leading up to your period. You can also use them during your period as a pain treatment. If you are preparing for conception, it may be best not to use castor oil packs during ovulation or on your period, follicular and luteal phases are going to be your jam. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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The idea is to keep castor oil on a piece of cloth on the skin for at least an hour with a heat source (while you journal, mediate, drink tea, watch Netflix, talk to your bestie—it’s your world). ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
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To make a castor oil pack, you’ll need a hot water bottle or pack, castor oil (organic is best), flannel cloths, and a spare towel. ⁣⁣⁣⁣
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—Apply castor oil to one side of a piece of flannel or cloth, so it’s saturated, but not dripping. ⁣⁣⁣
—Place saturated side of cloth on your lower abdomen⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
—Take a large cloth or towel and cover soaked flannel. It is best to have a towel underneath you to catch any leaks (castor oils stains, so make sure this is material that you don’t mind getting dirty). ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
—Apply the hot water bottle or electric heating pad on top⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣
—Relax with feet elevated⁣⁣⁣
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Castor oil packs can be beneficial to those experiencing uterine fibroids, cysts, PCOS, or endometriosis. 📷: @fertilealchemy ⁣

Have you tried castor oil packs? Let me know below!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

50 SHADES OF BREAST MILK

Yellow milk, golden milk, creamy milk, green tinted milk, watery milk. All milk is different because all babies are different. Our bodies modify the vitamin and nutrient levels in breastmilk (and thus the color, consistency, and even quantity) according to the nutritional and immunological needs of our baby. Aren’t our bodies amazing?! There’s absolutely no need to compare. No matter the color, quantity, or duration, you’re doing great mama! #atldoula #liquidgold #atlantadoula #blackbreastfeeding #doulaofcolor 📷: @paulalopezdroguet

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PELVIC FLOOR
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The pelvic floor is a group of nerves and muscles located at the base of the pelvis. The nerves control the muscles, and the muscles form a basket-like “floor” that support the pelvic organs (you can engage the pelvic floor by bearing down as if you were having a bowel movement).

Connecting to the pelvic floor during pregnancy is especially important. And equally as important is strengthening and lengthening them which can aid in the progression of labor, postpartum physical healing, and reduction of incontinence and unwanted bladder leakage. Holding tension in pelvic floor can often result from both emotional and physical factors like high intensity exercising, psychological stress (common during pregnancy), and experiences of sexual trauma.

There are some practices that you can do on your own to begin to bring awareness and intention to your pelvic floor: #kegels, squats, hip bridges, deep breathing, and any type of deep hip opening stretching.
Pelvic physical therapists are also great resources during/after pregnancy (and even before!) to find out which strengthening exercises might be best for your body. 

#pelvicfloor #incontinence #doulaofcolor #atldoula #atldoulasofcolor #atlantadoula 📷: @fertilealchemy

LOSS [trigger warning]

Most experiences of pregnancy and loss are never spoken of. Never shared. Many womxn who were once a home suddenly feel alone. ⁣⁣
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You are not alone. ⁣⁣
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As many as 1 in every 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage. One. In. Four. This month is a month to honor those that have experienced infant loss or miscarriage. There is no perfect way to heal, but you WILL heal. ⁣⁣
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Reach out to your tribe. Love them. Honor them. Because you never know what they’ve lost. ⁣⁣

Some pages that I love that offer loss support: @ihadamiscarriage @iamreneeashley @stillstandingmag ⁣⁣

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