MASCULINITY
We live in a gendered world—there is a constant desire to check a box that our society can most easily understand (I, too, play a part in this society sometimes). The box of “masculinity” as most understand it doesn’t always allow for more “feminine” desires like wanting to carry a child. If a masculine queer womxn is in a relationship with a feminine presenting womxn, the assumption is usually that the more feminine presenting partner would carry the child. However this isn’t always the case.
In the short documentary “My Mama Wears Timbs” (available on @Youtube), self-identified “pregnant butch” @frankiefockerr explores the intersection of masculinity and pregnancy. As a cisgender woman who always wanted to have a baby, it was a simple decision for Frankie—complicated by a world that struggled to grasp it. “Children don’t care about how you’re dressed,” director @itsarifitz says. “A newborn isn’t worried about the fit of their mom’s pants or whether or not she’s wearing a dress.”
Here @ Flora + Fauna, we support ALL FAMILIES.